Part 3. LoveRules #9 - Love, Self-Defined
Here we are with part 3 of LoveRules #9. Have you found it funny that I haven't covered LoveRules #2-8 yet? Remember, these aren't levels or steps, but more like principles and phases. Besides, what the spirit or "trend" of the moment asks for, is what I share. So let's talk about how we define our loves. What's important to us? What does that important stuff look like, really? Oh, but wait. The trend was that everyone was talking about a certain woman celebrity, and being influenced by the abrupt ending of her ruse of a marriage. It had everyone in knots, demanding marriage to prove to us that it is still worthwhile in 2011. While it created some good conversations about marriage, I think it's important to remember that we don't really know why this "celebrity" decided to get married in the first place. [On The Table of Truth Podcast, you might have heard me say, "marriage is what happens, it's not what you do." That's from LoveRules #7 - What is Love? More on that later.] Also, we don't know her definitions of love. I can tell you this. She came to media prominence via sex tape. Media stunt. Ruse. I'm not judging, but neither am I losing sleep over her actions. I thought the following was the greatest quote I saw on Twitter last week:
"Kim K made a huge profit on her nuptials, then dumped the stock early and brought down the value of marriage. #occupykimkadashian."
Sad, but true. But who knows? Maybe she is having a tough time shaping her definition of love, too. Or maybe she's just not ready for love, right now. It's all good. She's famous, but she's human. If you know her, go ahead and share LoveRules with her. She'll thank you. ;)
To be continued...